Thursday, July 15, 2010

u get married early. but no consumation ?? can or not??



Salam to all bloggers.

ok. tajuk yg agak panjang.
hehe. =)

smlm wkt nak wat 'kalam' utk arab esok, tajuk 'az-zawaj' ie perkahwinan, 
TERdiscuss la plak pasal bnd nie ngan asmaa'. 

sape nak kawen awal?
sape suke kawen awal? 

dh ramai yg kawen awal. Kawan kpd kawan aku, sebaya plak tue (19 skarang - ok masih muda) dah kawen ngan balak dia yg umo 3 thn lagi tua. tp dgr citer, mak bapak pompuan tue x kasi wat consummation. 

reason: bdk pompuan tue still blajar. kalo hamil nnt, xke ssh nak bawak perut boyot tue gi kelas? 
errrr.... *xmuat kerusi* haha..



ye ker?? sape cakap??


* jap, korang paham x consummation tue ape??*
maksudnya....... teeetttt... = hubungan intim la.


well.. maybe sbb nak elakkan maksiat kot.
tp kat sini, ade hak ke parents dia nak control smpi cm tue??

Asmaa ckp : kalo dah lelaki.. mana blh tahan nafsu..
hahaha.. bdk kecik nie pandai2 jer ek...

aku ckp: tue kalo ddk serumah.. kalo xddk serumah??

cm mana tue??

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haaa.. sbnrnye citer nyer cm nie..

entry nie khas utk yg couple. (couple = haram??)
nak bc blog yg ckp couple tue x haram??

bukan dr sudut agama. nie just pandangan blogger tue.


klik kat sini??.. 
sory.. aku x jmp entry tue. haha.



aku nk tny..


korang setuju ke??

kalo korang in a relationship..
dn berpegang kpd prinsip KESETIAAN smpi akhir hayat.. cewaaahhh...


korang kawen jer terus drpd korang date. 
hahahaha..

kawen bukan sekadar penyatuan dua cincin emas kuning/putih.. hehe.. 


mksd aku kat sini..
even kalo korang bersentuhan - pegang tangan ke ape ke..
bende tue HALAL..

tp..
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xkan ada la consummation tue sbbnye both still lg belajar.
and 2nd, dua2 still lg blh dikatakan bwh jagaan parents w/p dh kawen.


dan kawen tue just syarat nak elak maksiat??


dn korang consummate tue bila dah keje???..
bila dah ada personal financial / surat wasiat??.. haha
bila dh ada rumah sndr??


dan...




dah bila bersedia??..
kih3x..



hahaha...



aku xde jawapan.

korang??

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13 comments:

muaz shukor said...

haha , for you to ponder and wonder , haha

Alia Ramley said...

muaz:
yeah.. ponder and wonder..
xnak try? hahaha..

Unknown said...

salam..alia..

tjuk mmg best..
aku pun xde jwpn but i think depends on us laa..

ble je ade consumation tp kne ade prevention laa..spy x prgnant..

haha~it's just an opinion..

Alia Ramley said...

eika:
thanx.
so u mean safe sex?? hahaha..

prevention is not good. nnt terus x leh beranak. haha..

awe said...

penah dgr x
"play safe"?
hahaa

alia~~~~~~~`
nak kaweeeeeeeeeeeeen!
:'(

YAN said...

condom kan bnyak..

Alia Ramley said...

awe:
safe sex la tue. haha..
awe nak kawen??.. waaahh.. hahaha..


yan:
ewww..

nadrah zainuddin said...

weh boleh lah mcm tu. ape tah org panggil. nikah gantung kot. masa tu nazi ada cite pasal kawen cm ni. boleh je kan. tak salah pun. kenapa? kau nak ke alia? hahahah :p

Alia Ramley said...

nadrah:
hmm.. bg aku xde la nikah gantung.
tue dh mcm topik laen la plak. haha..

aku??? nak!!!.. hahahaha.. gatal..
xde arr..

Afif Fahim عفيف فهيم said...

kalau dah kawen tu, hak suami isteri kne la laksanakan,
x elok dan takut2 buruk akibat kalau x laksanakan...
boleh je kalau 'play safe'...
its okay to prevent beranak...
thats all...

tp contraceptive pills jauhkan la...
i mean laki2 kan ade inisiatif len...pham2 la...hehe...

besides, it is 'consummation' not 'consumation'...
wrong spelling:P

Alia Ramley said...

afif:
yer la..
thanx for the spelling error =)

nadrah zainuddin said...

kau mmg gatal. lama dah aku tahuu :)

Alia Ramley said...

nad:
dah taw diam2 arr kau.. haha..